Earlier this month I exchanged vows with my husband for the 21st time. We are in the process of marrying each other 100 times in 100 countries (his idea)… and then we’ll maybe start over.
I manifested my husband (at 45 years old) using the same process I teach for manifesting money—the Alchemy I used to go from struggling to make a few hundred dollars to making hundreds of thousands of dollars (and millions) doing what I love, serving those I love.
Because money and love are connected. In fact all money issues are love issues if you dig deep enough…
I’ve coached thousands of people on this topic over the last two decades, and this is what I’ve discovered:
The more you have to sacrifice what you value to make money—sacrificing time with loved ones, sacrificing what you really want to be doing, even sacrificing what you believe in to make a buck–the more money becomes a monster, and the more you have incentives to make the money go away.
If money and love are playing on opposite teams, everyone loses. I'm going to teach you how to flip that dynamic entirely, so that the more you love, the more you profit.
When my coaching peers talk about relationship with money, they are typically talking about money as a tool or as a measure of value. The spiritual or Law of Attraction coaches might describe money as energy, or even a “field” of abundance. All of these ideas may be true, but they’re abstract: I don’t know how to have a relationship with a measure of value or a field. That’s just not real to me.
You know what’s real? People. So I suggest we make money a person.
When you can imagine money as a real, flesh and blood person worthy or your deepest admiration, you embark on a love affair of the heart!
An imaginary person is more real and relatable than an abstract concept. We all know what it’s like to have relationships with a person. That frame of reference becomes a game changer. It makes our relationship with money REAL. We all have first hand experience with people, right?
Improving your relationship with money starts with getting really honest with where you are now and what’s not working. We want to create MAXIMUM POLARITY to create real clarity around what belongs in your life and what doesn’t. (There’s no magic in neutrality.)
Making money into a monster “person” helps us bring what’s hidden out into the light.
After the “monster” has been removed, space becomes available to create a truly safe and loving new relationship with money that is on your side and shares your values. We personify this relationship as well as your “Money Honey.”
When money becomes safe and loving, people change their dynamic and change their results.
These results can come really FAST!
* Laura Koehne made $10,000 in 48 hours.
* Caroline Konnoth made $86,000 in 12 hours.
* Leslie Manookian made $1.2 million dollars in a weekend.
But more important than the cash amounts (which are pretty exciting), their relationship with money, life, and themselves changed before the dollars arrived.
The money always follows love and trust.
The secret is to go deep into the monster FIRST. The monster is the portal to the honey and the foundation of the whole process. You cannot have a clear and committed relationship with your Money Honey while you still have a monster in the room.
Love comes first. Cash follows the love.
Here are 3 principles that you can can put into action immediately to make more money by putting love first:
1) Inner change precedes outer results. If you’re taking action and not getting the results you desire, look inside to find what you’re protecting yourself from.
2) Raise your standards. Say no. Say no to your monster. Say no to the things that do not bring you alive, that do not bring out your best. Say no to anything that does not love and exalt you.
3) Follow love. Love makes us our most expansive, brilliant, generous, best selves. The more you love, the more you’ll prosper. And love starts with loving yourself.
How are YOU going to add more love to your Relationship with Money today? (Share your thoughts below)
To your Abundance an Prosperity,
Morgana Rae
PS Want to learn more about the Financial Alchemy® 6-step process to change your relationship with money? Keep an eye out for my interview with Serena on the Amazing Women of Influence podcast! Check out my special offer for the AWEN tribe.
- How to Make More Money by Putting Love First - December 11, 2018